Grounded

I spent basically the past two years on the road for work. Throw in three international vacations and other trips for fun around the US and I was tired.
Living on the road sounds so glamorous to people. It isn't, it is hard and hard on you.

Yes, I had fun... a lot of fun. Got to see places and meet people I would not have if I didn't travel. Last December I received VIP treatment for the lighting of the Rockfeller Christmas Tree, a bucket list item crossed off! I saw a lot and experienced a lot. I tried to see friends in Philly and Jersey and their kids (pic below is one of them) when I was nearby. I told myself it made it worth it to be away so much. I had to, as being away from your family and friends is difficult, anyone who travels a lot or lives internationally for work will tell you, it's hard and you realize you miss a lot.





I haven't traveled since May. Four months since I checked into a flight. For reorganization reasons at work, business travel stopped. "I was grounded". It was interesting to realize how used to being on the road I had truly become...and that my loved ones had become just as used to it. I realized being home the past four months now, how truly disconnected I had become from peoples lives. Yes I still saw people on occasion, but it was hit or miss, and it wasn't enough for me.

I have truly appreciated the past few months of being with family and friends more. Maybe that is the lesson I needed to learn? I have reconnected with people and felt a part of my life was given back to me. I adopted my dog Sophie who seemed to fall right in to place at the right moment when I had been sort of looking for months. Job changed, travel stopped and there she was, fresh from Oklahoma! Fate? Sort of. I know I have an angel above that played a role in making sure she came into my life.




I have been able to enjoy a weekend away here and there at peoples cabins. Enjoy my season tickets at the fabulous Target Field - I was at opening day! I was able to go to shows like The Scottsboro Boys (a must see!) and Lady Gaga because I was actually in town when they played.



I love to travel and that will never change. I have trips booked to Pittsburgh (work), Austin (LIVESTRONG) and Vegas (Christmas at Mom's). I am also hoping to get to Ireland, London or Amsterdam in November as it's been far too long since I have crossed the pond (those details are still being worked out).

I am glad that being away is no longer my normal, and that being home is. I really cherish the time I am spending with people and the time I am just home in my house with my doggie. I used to greet my house and bed "hi home, hi bed" when I would come home from a trip. Note to self: I probably appreciated them both a bit more when I was traveling so much. Better get back on that and show appreciation more :)

Getting grounded has been the best thing for me in a long time. Far different than when I was grounded as a youth, but my mom would probably tell you that was always good for me too :)

Till my next trip, take care and appreciate your surroundings.